If you are a teenager and you have decided to separate from your partner do you think you would emerge from the experience richer and more evolved as a person? Some teens learn from their break-up and set out on a different path, whereas others seem to take a bad hit. People belonging to this category it would have been better not to have loved at all?

For every teenager who has visited the heartbreak zone- here is a question. Is it better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all? The experience of loving and being loved makes you feel richer. When we are in love our emotions swing to absolute extremes. We are riding into unbelievable high one moment and plunging into depression the very next moment. We believe ourselves to be one of the luckiest persons to be alive when in love, whereas when that love ends we are thoroughly torn apart.

Love could be our cause of happiness but it could also result in sorrows. To give up one is to give up the other. If you deny yourself love for fear of the pain, you would undoubtedly be depriving yourself of all the ecstasies too. Surely the high that love alone can swing you to is worth the risk of pain. There is a beauty to even the pain that love brings. Its beauty lies in the depth of emotion we experience and the way we respond to it.

Whether or not you are able to smile at shared happy moments later depends on how the two of you have chosen to end the relationship. The very purpose of beginning and ending a relationship is to enable us to learn valuable lessons. If we fail to understand that, we would be doomed to a series of loves that keep ending in grief.

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